When you ask a kid what they want to be, they immediately know! Whether they want to be a doctor, lawyer, actor — kids know even from the age of 5 and no one can stop them from achieving their goals! Most of what they learn to become successful is through education but the rest it simply parenting. Parents should never underestimate the value of what they teach their kids which can make them successful in life. Here are steps/techniques that will guide your kids along the way!
Honesty.
Honesty is the best policy! How many times have you heard the saying: “when you lie, you’re not hurtling others but yourself.” Take his statement for what it is. Being dishonest can ruin relationships whether it is business or personal.
Adapting Listening Skills.
There’s a difference between hearing and listening. It’s important for kids to listen to information related to them in order to grasp an understanding. You’ll know when your children are listening when they ask questions or make comments. Listening helps kids engage in conversations more which can help them become less shy in meeting friends.
Humble & Humility.
The best way to our teach children is by example. Behind superstars, parents are role models to kids. They admire and follow our lead. An arrogant person can never teach humility. Being a parent means we have authority – not arrogance. It’s important as parents that we remain patient and respectful to our kids. There are ways to engage in a conversation or discipline your child without yelling. When we educate quietly—we model humility. If you think that the only way they will listen is if you yell, then you are not disciplining properly. This can have an effect on their social skills and how they interact with other children in the future.
Understanding The Value of a Dollar.
I believe in allowance and working to get what you want. Kids will learn why mommy and daddy at times are tired when they get home from work. Some parents look at this as a bribe — but it is merely placing responsibility on the child.
Turning a Business Into a Hobby.
Nowadays, kids don’t have to learn how to start a business in college. It starts way before then. Teach them now in a fun but educational way. Do they like to bake? Can they make a delicious lemonade? Talk to your kids about turning something cool into something spectacular! Kids love money because they can buy whatever they want. By showing them how to make a profit will influence them in creating a business. Kidpreneurs ( kid + entrepeneurs) do exist. Sometimes it’s up to parents to give them a little motivation to their creation!
These skills will help guide our children socially, academically and mentally as they grow into successful adults!
Courtesy: Lauren Jimeson
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